the reason why some of us cant settle down :halo: …or maybe me and just a few guy/gals i know
we seem to know all these people.. but refuse to acknowledge their existence.. i dunno, maybe cus we’re shallow or just not satisfied..
heres a “short” list of potentials i came up with hehe
#1 the guy we love (or seem to think we are in love with) #2 the guy we’re set up with (the rishta) #3 the cousin #4 the guy who knows everything bout you #5 the ex-potential #6-29 the guys who stalk u on msn telling you they love you and want want to marry you
so.. #1 is the guy/gal we adore. We dream about them daily and sometimes at night too.. but they dont come visit us there. Before we press on the “login” button, we pray that there is an email from them.. but there never is. This is the person we base our whole life around. They prob dont even know how much we care for them.. but we continue to pray for them and forgive them… hence, why we are pathetic.,
#2 is the guy/gal someone found for us. He/she is supposedly a good match for you, but you realise you have zilch in common. You call each other up and giggle cus u have nothing else to talk about. Within a week u dont care if the other exists or not
#3 is the cousin who proposed to u when u were 14. This person is ur fallback when ur 35 and still unmarried. And even then, you dont want to consider them. There is nothing wrong with this person.. but you dont want them cus they are your cousin
#4 is the person u can talk to for hours. This person knows most things about you.. remembers pretty much everything you tell them, even if you’ve forgotten you told them. They’re a possible potential but ur too scared to even think along those lines.. this could possibly be the person you really love
#5 is the person who pops in and out of ur life. They were once upon a time on ur potential list but cus of some unfortunate mishap you decided u hated each other, but still thought u were nice enuff to talk to.. well when they felt like talking to u that is.. lets face it, ur their fallback..
#6-29 not important…
and then i think to myself… we still have no choice or we simply refuse to look beyond #1?
If my opinion is worth anything, I’d suggest you gorgeous bachelorettes to marry the one who loves you not necessarily the one you are after. And to be loved all you need is a sweet attitude and a giving personality.
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
so u say #4? what if he/she hasnt said anything?
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..then possibly you are interpreting it the wrong way.
If someone is going out of his/her way and investing time in your likes/dislikes then obviously he/she is more than a friend. People who are serious normally don’t beat around the bush..they speak up sooner or later…Or better yet..you ask the person without making them uncomfortable and hurting your self-esteem. Let me know if you need lessons... :-D
sadzzz … too funny (and very true)
