lol, some of the people on here, being judgemental by accusing the poster of being judgemental:smack:,how stupid.
saima, i think when poeple are younger and unattached or with no responsibilites, its easier to stay in touch and be close to cousins or friends etc, but as you grow up, life gets busy,and as cold as it sounds, sometimes people cant be bothered to stay in touch anymore, the relationships that meant something, suddenly dont mean anything much anymore.
like for example, ive a cousin who as kids me and my sisters were really close to, gradually we grew apart though, my sister went to uni so didnt speak to him much, other sister just wasnt as bothered anymore,and my self the same i guess, maybe its kind of taking your cousins for granted or vice versa,i dont know. anyway hes married with kids now and not at all in touch with my sisters but a little with me after i married and have visited him a few times.
perhaps at some point, you may become close to those cousins again, who knows. 