My cousin's wife is soooo annoying. He just got married and unfortunately my family was not able to attend his wedding. He is still studying and so is she so they don't live together yet. B4 they got married he constantly talked about how he hoped she would get along with all of us. We assured him it would be fine. **The problem is after they got married he give her my email and cell number so me and her could become friends. **Now she constantly emails me, facebook messages me , calls me and texts me. I asked my cousins sister (brides nand) if she did that to her too and she said no. I dont want to be rude to her but its getting annoying and I really dont know what to say to her. Its not like we r the same age or anything either and I've never even met her. I hinted to my cousin that she constantly tried to communicate with me and he was thrilled not realizing how annoying i found it to be. He thanked me for being so welcoming to her.
I am getting so annoyed with her..what should I do?
There, you said it. That is the problem. Your cousin, aka her husband, gave his wife your contact info and told her to become your friend. Perhaps she is doing just that and trying to be an obedient wife. I don't think she is the annoying one. I think its your cousin who gave your personal info to her without consulting you first.
You said he was "thrilled" after she contacted you. Don't you think he told his wife that he gets happy when she communicates with you? Its not her fault. She is just trying to make her hubby happy.