^ I agree with Bon. I know that I have been in a situation where people whom I like have bombarded me with frequent emails/contact. I've been on the receiving end of that situation and as nice as the person might be.......it can become overwhelmingly irritating.
In all fairness.....I have also been on the giving end of this scenario. Unaware of my actions, I've pestered people with frequent contact as well. It happens. Most of us have been on one end or the other at various times and it can be frustrating.
I'm sure Mahiya didn't have the intention to embarrass her cousin. If that were the case, she would use her cousin's real name. But she hasn't done that. She's frustrated and is seeking help. Even the most sweetest people can be a nuisance sometimes because they are **unaware **that they're bugging others.
That's why Mahiya needs to make this girl aware of her feelings in a NICE way. She can simply tell the girl that she can't communicate as regularly or as often because she's busy and has things to do. This of course does not mean ignoring the girl completely......but reducing the frequency of communication.
And this may turn out to be a GOOD thing for the cousin's wife. With the reduced communication, the cousin's wife will have more time to focus on her marriage, on herself, and on making the effort to find other people for company....and thus bonding with other members of her husband's family as well.