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No body plans love ,ho jata hai ? if it happens with cousin or not is just as fate as it happens with the girl next door or not .So chill
u don’t sound like a paki… r u english?
This is true! Love just happens. If you were to fall in Love with your cousin you wouldn’t marry her just because of something that is yet to be proved. Plus some studies show that there is no problem at all. Islam permits it so it is OK.
TRUST ME YOU DON’T DECIDE WHO TO FALL IN LOVE WITH. LOVE JUST HAPPENS!
Pyaar Bhi Zindagi Ki Tarah Hota Hay.
Hur Mor Asan Nahin Hota, Hur Mor Pay Khushi Nahin Milti;
Pur Jub Hum Zindagi Ka Saath Nahin Chortay To Pyaar Ka Saath Kyon Chorayn
Hey for that fool who said his parents were cuz and look at how he turned out, well buddy my parents were cuz and I am just perfectly FINEEEEEEEEEEEE. Alhamdullah
The Prophet (saw) daughter married her cuz, look at her children.
"By Allah I long to escape the prison of my ego and lose myself in the mountains and deserts , these sad and lonely people tire me" ---Rumi
Stupid people traped in stupid western mentality that cuz to cuz marriages are some "ewww" sin! Grow up!
there is nothing wrong with cousin marriages infact this can lead to happier married life, you have love and respect for your uncles and aunties, you know the eprsonality and habits likes etc of your cousins, no one treats their cousins like real siblings its a myth. if the 2 parties involved are happy whats it to you and me. how can they say cousin marriages have disabled children .
astagfirullah have you seen how many disabled mentally physically people there are in the so called wetern religions and they do not intermarry. ALLAH can cause any disease on anyone at any time, so this is not an issue.
Interesting Discussion..
For those who call cousin marriage unfit, i have a point, Every 4 out of 10 marriages is between cousins in Pakistan. and chances of gene clashes are very rare.. I repeat very RARE..
and As Quran also dosnt prohibit this sort or marriage.
I see no problem..
I have a question..
Is this topic yet another Western originated idea ?
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Omair, i dont know abt cousin marriage, personally i wouldnt go for it bcos i wouldve knnown the person for life and treateed them as my brother (almost)
but if i felt really strongly and vice versa who knows?
oh as for the childrens problems, diseases, usually downsyndrome i think its usually a result of the grandparents of the child being very closesly related crisscrossing genepools etcetc family ties close basically,
My parents are cousins, and I turned out fine- so did my brother. Infact, my parents are not the only cousins married in my family, there are others too. Masallah, all are perfectly normal.
What are all you people "ewwing" about? Aern't most of you Muslims? 30% of all marriages in Saudi Arabia are cousin marriages. In Pakistan it's about 40% (according to one guppie here). Hey that's almost half of all marriages in these two countries. Marriage between cousins is nothing uncommon. Such occurences are mentioned in the Bible as well. Our own Prophet's (PBUH)children were married to cousins.
No one is forcing you. You don't have to marry your cousin if you don't want to. But, I don't see why some of you are so disgusted, despite the cultural/religious backgroung that you come from.
I agree with you its the same way in Turkey and in the Middle East and in fact I have lots of Italian freinds who have married their cuz or have someone in there family who is and its not only Muslims its soo many others.
"By Allah I long to escape the prison of my ego and lose myself in the mountains and deserts , these sad and lonely people tire me" ---Rumi