Courage

Lifestyle Relationships
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it takes alot for someone to stand up for themselves, especially me. I am at a point where i have to make some serious life changing decisions (coming soon).. the biggest is what will happen with me and my parents relationship. It will never ever be the same and it may damage forever until they get over it. But thats the price i have to pay. And it effing sucks

another is i have come to the painful realization that certain people i have to cut off, and it will be very hard considering that one in particular i have always trusted more than myself, literally. But this person has just shown me time abd time again that i simply dont matter. Next time he calls me, i will have to give it to him. I dont know if i will have the courage to do so. Cuz i dont want to lose him. And no, im not in love with him or anything, its not that. We just have (had) a very trusting, very good relationship. It hurts me when i think about it.

But i gotta do what i gotta do, for myself

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No idea about the background but agreed with the last sentence. Good luck :k:

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basically.. whatever I’m about to do will strain my relationship with my parents for forever.. or at least until they get over it..

and num 2 - same thing with a particular friend that I have in my life.. he is about to be cut off… cuz I’m tired of always coming last and being taken advantage of and being lied to.. and I don’t want to do this cuz we have been friends for years but I cant take being ill treated

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In order to bring (positive) change in your life you will have to get uncomfortable and go through pain first. But once you are past that hardest part, you will see the fruits of your labour.

So, good luck with everything. May ALLAH Swt grant you the courage and will power to achieve your goals.