Re: couple fights
a fight is us shouting at each other
calling each other names
not talking for a day or even two
and in the end making up
nevertheless that period when we dont talk just sucks
thats pretty childish, and frankly, i shudder to think what kind of married life you would have if you can't even resolve these issues. and you're clearly not resolving things here because it keeps happening.
imagine if you had kids... if you can't figure each other out now, before marriage and kids, then when you do have kids, all they'll know is a really turbulent and unstable lifestyle. theres no magic pill that once you're married, all will be well and your fights will automatically resolve and there will be peace in the land. there won't be. you two are going to have to get your act together before you think about getting married. and based on your other thread, that probably won't happen. :(