i was just wondering that when you guppies have a fight with ur hubby/wife ,then who end up saying sorry??
in our case its always ME my hubby is just a stone hearted banda kai he simply dont say SOrry:smack: its not that he is not nice ,he is a gem,but fight kai baad he simply cant say sorry.he will treat me as if nothing has happened,smae smiling face,same baat cheet.
but my nature is to first clear the things up and then in end who is at fault he/she should say sorry:naraz:
Perhaps in your husband's family, it wasn't the norm to say sorry after arguments. Maybe he has the attitude that in the end you both will always be together and that these arguments don't mean much in the scheme of things. I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings because I'm just like you. I need to sort things out with the other person and get some closure....otherwise the issue just lingers in my mind. And i've found that communicating does help. So, talk to your husband. Tell him that you feel it's important to talk about the issue and apologize because it puts the issue to death and provides closure...so moving on becomes more healthier and easier. Try talking to him about it.
Saying sorry when you’re wrong doesn’t make you inferior. Some people need that reminder. However, actions speak louder than words, as well. So the “sorry” need not always be verbal.
Can’t stand people who let their egos take over in any relationship.
p.s. sorry, I’m aware I’m not answering the question you posed.:halo:
my husband doesn’t like communication n discussion when i try to discuss an issue he closes his eyes n go to some sort of meditation. wat to do.u just can’t win with men:hoonh:
ahhhh dont u hate it when that happens.. my husband just plain out says NO to everything.. im usually the one to apologize and i think its more of a womans nature to patch up and mend things.. i get all finicky if neither one of is doesnt talk to each other for more than 5 mins after an argument so ill jst start talking myself.. but these days Ive seen that he's started to realize that maybe he can make mistakes and that saying sorry wont hurt him in any way..
i was just wondering that when you guppies have a fight with ur hubby/wife ,then who end up saying sorry??
It's always my husband. He likes to say sorry right away even if he's not at fault because he tries to cool off things before they turn into full fledged arguments. It was like that for a long time but now we both make sure we say sorry regardless of who's at fault. We have a rule that no matter how big the argument is, we will not go to sleep angry at each other.. even if it means staying up late to sort it out.. we don't like to carry our issues or arguments to the next day.
my hubby is just a stone hearted banda kai he simply dont say SOrry:smack: its not that he is not nice ,he is a gem,but fight kai baad he simply cant say sorry.he will treat me as if nothing has happened,smae smiling face,same baat cheet.
when i try to discuss an issue he closes his eyes n go to some sort of meditation. wat to do.u just can’t win with men:hoonh: