Re: Could you be good/close friends with someone completely different to you?
You may never know those reasons. There’s a chance she may never tell you or might not be completely honest about it. And no, I don’t think knowing the reasons will make you feel any better. We tend to think it would, but it will just hurt more to know the reasons for rejection. Sometimes we do get closure from the person who hurt us, but many times we don’t…so you have to be the one to give yourself that closure…to detach and move on.
Friendship is based upon more than just knowledge of Pakistani dramas. You’re too concerned about getting their approval/acceptance and it shouldn’t be this hard. And yes, contrary to what u think, you are sounding like the over-enthusiastic, eager-to-please, intense friend. If they don’t reciprocate, of course it will hurt…but then you move on.