Re: Could it even be called love?
So has your question been answered? I think the 2 main characters of your story probably just liked each other...thought I would be nice t get married, but the love and passion may not have been here.
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Lets look at this in reality... there is nothing called love, it is infatuation with the other being. To take your infatuation and making it into obsession, then calling it true love... well that is just crazy talk. A normal person looks at everything logically... this love stuff only happens in movies!
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After seeing so many flop love stories in my real life actually in last few days... i am just wondering.... really does true love exist??? is it really so easy for someone to move on and get married with other person??
p.s. i really believe in true love but now i am having some doubts :p
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kab baray hongay ye sab hormonal bachay 
Re: Could it even be called love?
Lets look at this in reality... there is nothing called love, it is infatuation with the other being. To take your infatuation and making it into obsession, then calling it true love... well that is just crazy talk. A normal person looks at everything logically... this love stuff only happens in movies!
Yes there is love , I and my wife and so many other successful love marriages are proof of it. All love is not infatuation , all infatuation do not turn into obsessions.
If someone has not fallen into true love that person will not know what it is.
I am preaching that you go out there and try to fall in love , it does not work this way , it happens and before you know it you are knee deep into it.
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So, there were a girl & guy who were madly in love with each other. Both of them are our family friends, and both of them are good friends of mine. So, they both wanted to get married to each other,and the guy sent over his parents with proposal to her parents but her parents didn't agree as they had done her rishta with her cousin,and so, she got married to her cousin.The guy was bit upset about it.But they both took it very lightly,and now she is married to her cousin,and she is happy too,mashaAllah,and the guy is preparing to get engaged with his cousin. Now, what really makes me wonder is that,was there love between them at all?I mean,they both should have been little bit upset over losing each other but they both were all okay about that.Is it that easy to move on, and there is nothing as such called love in today's world?Or there are many good people in this world that we easily fall in love with another person?
Pinky: both of them are sensible person and belong to good family. they might have love for each other, but that does not mean to rebel against parent. they did good decision.
indeed they went through some pain.
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I am not bachi… i am grown up girl :halo:
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yea…think about it 
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I object, your honour 
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I am grown up girl but sometimes I behave like teenagers 
Khush sub
Re: Could it even be called love?
Regarding the OP's question, I really don't think it could have been LOVE and yes, I do believe in love. You only get it when you are in love, and no it is not infatuation or a silly hardcore obsession nor is it anything filmy or unrealistic. If that happened to me, no way in hell would I give up on my guy and let my parents or anyone convince me to marry anyone else and of course it would be easy and natural for me to do that because I was in love with the guy. If the girl wasn't in love with him and wasn't so determined, I could understand her being in that vulnerable place where she could be convinced to marry her cousin and her not really fighting for the first guy.
That being said, I find it really annoying when other people try to sound all poetic and sensible by saying things like "there is no such thing as love" or "the girl and guy were sensible and mature"
...uh, no. There is nothing sensible about compromising to that degree (hard to explain the concept of degree but you know when you're in love). If it was possible to move on, it wasn't really about love, it was more about convenience.