Re: coping with failure..
What's wrong, if I used the word "MY DEAR" to Faizy. We both know each other and I used it since I feel informal with him. In fact, I use it with lot of other people when I feel I have developed informal relation with them. You can see it in many of my postings in Gupshup. PCG didn't like it, so I decided to remain formal with her. If Faizy objects then I will not use it with him too.