Rabia How old are you? Married? Engaged? what other life experiences do you have as far as managing this complex relationship is concerned.... and how well you really know MEN ?
Please elaborate to support your dis-agreement. BTW, I am married for more than 15 years, know men because I am one, and basically been there done that almost everything.....lol
Regards
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first of all i m offended by u asking for my age. i m a mature woman.
not all men are the same, some actually want the honest truth (because i knw i also would want the truth).
I have been with my fiance for 4 years mA. and getting married this dec iA.
so this is why i think its better to come out and tell the truth...because this world is too small (my ex n fiance weren't even the same cities) and there are too many evil ppl out there.
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I posted this related response to another thread.
You know marriage is very complex relationship in today's world. No matter what, both are human and both can't deal with a fact (not for log) that someone they are being intimate with was intimate with someone else. So why play with the fire, keep your ex life in a safe deposit box and lose the key...
Some will object it by saying, what if they hear it from someone else? well were you that stupid to publish your personal life that everyone knows the details ? Even if they hear it from somewhere, you can always deny that......lot better than confessing it and not leaving a way out ....