^ i disagree with u pakiamerican, i think its better to me honest and have everything out in the open frm the start. U dont want him/her to find out abt ur past frm other ppl. they will lose the trust in u. u dont have share every little detail abt ur ex, but just telling them u have an ex...shouldn't be hidden.
Rabia
How old are you? Married? Engaged? what other life experiences do you have as far as managing this complex relationship is concerned.... and how well you really know MEN ?
Please elaborate to support your dis-agreement.
BTW, I am married for more than 15 years, know men because I am one, and basically been there done that almost everything.....lol
Regards
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^ first of all i m offended by u asking for my age. i m a mature woman.
not all men are the same, some actually want the honest truth (because i knw i also would want the truth).
I have been with my fiance for 4 years mA. and getting married this dec iA.
so this is why i think its better to come out and tell the truth...because this world is too small (my ex n fiance weren't even the same cities) and there are too many evil ppl out there.