I’m not talking about talking with the spirits or jins & all that kinda stuff…
I’m rather talking about how you see your loved ones, who are deceased, in such a detailed kinda dream…that you felt as if they haven’t forgotten you…
Where does Islam stand on this?
I’m not so sure how serius you can look at these specific kinda dreams.
Is it possible that your loved-one still remembers you while he/she is in Jannah (Like, he/she was a good person & everything…so you pray that they are in Jannah – Ameen). & at the same time, you’re so grateful to Allah SWT that He gave you such a dream…to still remember your loved one…& your loved one still remembers you…that well frankly, it’s as if Allah blessed you with you having this dream..
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is it just plain old guna tht you’re thinking way too much & interpretating too much of the other dimension of life (the deceased)? Should the dream not be made into a big deal & should the dream not be thought of so much…
I dun’t know what Islam says about this…the fact that you miss your loved one so much…& then it’s like you can’t help in having so much faith in that particular dream.
I dun’t know if some of you can relate to waht i’m saying or not…
Btw,
i’d, um,
prefer that you don’t respond to this thread coldly…
Afterall, we are talking about ppl who have passed away…& were/are greatly missed yet till today…
In my opinion, heaven or hell is not decided until the day of judgement which will take place at the end of the world.
On the day of reckoning the 'deceased' will be raised and made to appear before the Lord for an accounting. Until then, they (the deceased) will remain deceased.
Dreams, as Prophet SAW himself said, are a way of Allah SWT to provide humans a bridge between them and beyond. Its a form of revelation, that only descends when youre asleep. And its very normal to see your loved ones in your dreams, and at times, the thoughts and feelings passed on through those dreams are very genuine and valid.
I have seen it first hand with people having such contacts with their loved ones, who have passed on, and their communication ranges from a simple greeting, to something very specific. All in all, these rendezvous' are a way of Allah SWT putting our mind at ease about some uncertainty that might be lingering in our minds, or some doubts or grudges or regrets that we might be harboring for some time. Just analyze the message that u get from your dreams, and see if any of your own thoughts, doubts, regrets or ideas are dealt with as a result of what u saw, or who you saw, or what was said in ur dream.
I appears you have not brought 'closure' to this event of losing a precious one in your life. This may be manifesting itself in many ways that are not healthy - spiritually & physically.
You need to accept the fact that a beloved has passed on and bring 'closure' to the event in your life so that both you and the departed may find peace.
I cannot explain it in on the internet, but if u ever heard of "Burzakh". The deceased are there (in Barzakh) until the day of judgement (as Abdulmalik said), because Qayyamat to sab nay dekhnee hay, so will they & then there will be day of judgement.
As far as the deceased are in Barzakh, they have access to the land but then cant communicate with the living human beings. Rest I wont explain, because I was declared Kafir by some maulvies when I explained and I dont want to be declared Kafir again.
I'm interested Najim, please go on with your explanation. Why do you care who labels you a kafir ? You need to know that Allah(SWT) is enough for you ans us all.
dont be so concerned about talking to the dead loved ones, soon we shall be with them anyway..........LOL.......60 years of this life is like 60 milllisec in the next.
on a more serious note, i believe that its possible to see the dead.When people die they experience different things ie a bad person is tortured, a msulim who did lots evil but some good will be waiting for trial on day of judgement.Those who are friends of allah which are referred to in the quran specially will go straight to allahs throne and be in his company.Just think of all the pleasure we get from stuff on earth like lust etc etc and then we are called before the creator of such desires in the divine court.Obviously to see allah has greatest feelings that earth cant bring
their is a simple reason people cant see the dead , becuase in quran allah says about humans they have "veils in front of their eyes and veils behind their eyes, verily they cannot see".
once you remove these veils you may see many things like also the jinn and other unseen creations.
i would just like to ask you guppoooos if anyone of yous has had any experiences of the unseen.If too shy to say then can tell in private..........im just curious thats all.