Re: Conversation
I’ll be honest i have your problem in reverse…
I’m the FOB, a word i’ve recently learned the meaning of 
and although i speak excellent english and am not burdened with a typical desi accent my voice is more like a scottish person 
my wife speaks only english.
In everday talking i often use english and pothwari my home language is so romantic… but it’s hillarious becuase i spend much time having to teach her the meanings of words for wich in english one needs a book per word of Potwari.
Urdu i can speak well but not as easily as Potwari and so i’m stuck a little bit.
However my Wife is very understanding and so am i in fact i think this aspect has enhanced our feelings for one another becuase we both need each other even more 
I pray sister your life is a long and happy one and Insha Allah your soon to be Husband will be a greatly tolerant and understanding man… urdu is such a beautifull language and i recomend you watcha few classical romantic Urdu films just to get a grip of the depth of the language and meanings.
It’s not a hard process Masha-Allah you will learn very soon and then you’ll be more the wise and happier.