This is an excerpt from a conversation i had with Lassi, here is what transpired. What do you girls think about her.
Me: Aslamalaykum ***** how are you?
Lassi: I am fine, who is this?
Me: This is ****** i came to your house remember.
Lassi: Oh walykumsalam how are you i didn’t expect you to call.
Me: Yeah i know i was just getting bored so i thought i’ll call you.
Lassi: hmmm (she actually said hmmm like girls say in a taunting way i dunno why she said it but ahh well) thats very nice of you, where did you get my #?
Me: I got your number from ****** just wanted to say hi to you.
Lassi: Hmmm, HI!
Me: (Quite for couple of seconds) so hows your studies going?
Lassi: They’re going great, very close to finishing.
Me: (**** kya ker raha hai beta, Mom walks in room) Ok i gota go i’ll cal later bye, click.*
Should i call her back? I made a complete ass out of my self.
U Shd call her again..dont confuse urself abt relation jst act as if everything is final n u r her fiancee … or ye mom ki waja se phone rakh kyo diyaa u shdnt do tht .. bulka mommmy ki b tora hello hi kerwa daitai appp … call her again n b confident…
areyy kiyon call her back ki advice de rahey ho .. abhi mangni hui nahi .. to you log pehley hi laraaei kar waa rahey ho ... yeh ab se lassi ko tang karey ga .. to ussey saari zindagi k liye tang kia jaana bardaasht karna parey ga :p
on a serious note: I think you should when you call .. inform her of your intentions .. cos like you said other day ..and like now ..mangni pakki nahi hui ..that .. inshaAlllah one day you two are to tie the knot.. zihni taur par tayaar karo .. then if you really think that shes gonna be ok with it .. then get the mangni done asap..phir jitna tang karna hai tang karo :D
You're not related, you're not engaged, you're not married, so why are you calling her? (I may have missed something here so forgive me if I have...)
It's not good that you are talking to her as it's "conversations" like these that happen behind closed doors that lead to other things happening. (i'm not judging you, just speaking from other peoples experience)..
I would just send a text and apologies for hanging up and then leave it till at least the engagement is official..
Plus, Ramadan coming up and are you going to be calling her day/night throughout the holy month..?