give him a taste of his own medicine ...
control his way of life .. about his friends, going out and shopping .. he will get sick of it and will tell u off .. thats when u tell him but u are doing the same to me I am only following your habbits.
this 'getting even' and 'tit for tat' thing never works for men esp husbands.
they take it too personally. :p some men are just too controlling. i have seen my dad that way mostly. mama doesnt mind as according to her, she always looks up to dad for most decisions but i don't believe in letting your husband control every teeny weeny thing like what to wear and what to cook and what to buy. that goes overboard i think :)