Re: Controlling negative
nik
How you behave in front on that persons problem is going to have a big impact how they feel about them.
If it was your son, smacking him on the head and making him pratha will fix all the issues.
Other wise, you need to identify where is where they need to vent. and where they are reaching out for to be rescued.
1-When vent time you let them say stuff. With out getting effected your self. If you get effected you wont be able to help. Just give them enough attention so if there is any piece of new information you wont miss it.
2-And then there will be time when you kick their butt and tell "lets go" do some life and look at the future.