Consulting elders vs making your own decisions

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Re: Consulting elders vs making your own decisions

@htmwrites

“Consulting” doesn’t mean you HAVE to do what they say. Elders have more experience in life and everyone had their own perspective. I always listen to what they have to say, a) out of respect b) because I genuinely wonder if im missing out on something. After that, it’s easier to make a calculated decision on my own intellectual ability.

Sorry I worded my question wrong. I am interested in knowing if they make decisions for you, or you do whatever you want.