constant fighting

Lifestyle Relationships
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Which married couples constantly fight all the time, lets say a fight happens each week and in the fight one says to the other that marrying you was teh biggest mistake of my life and i will never be happy with you etc

do they really mean it or are they just angry and is it quite common for fights to happen like this and later on things get normal in the sense of less fighting as time goes by

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What? fighting each week is now "constant fighting" ???

PS:
depends on the temper of people involved. People do say things they do not actually mean. Like my wife's first sentence normally is "ufff kahaan phans gaee. Only if I knew all this before..." but I know she does not mean it :)

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Ok I am sorry for going off topic but I always wonder why you say things on your wife's behalf.. what she thinks about a drama (haniya ke baray main or about Humsafar) or what she tells you or what she'll do in a situation.. pretty much no opinion of your own.. just her's .. when she is a user here herself. Woh apni baat khood kyon nahi karti?? Had to ask you, was really bothering me

And to the OP... I think people say it in anger.. if they meant it, they wouldn't be living together.

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aawww I did not know I have a follower. Do not think too much about me :slight_smile:

I do not allow her to come online and speak her mind out. Kia izzat reh jayee gi meri? She is at her rightful place Kitchen, pressing my cloths, doing laundry for me etc etc :wink:

PS:
my serious replies normally has 2 parts

  1. What I think about the solution
    “depends on the temper of people involved. People do say things they do not actually mean.”

  2. How it goes in my daily life
    *"Like my wife’s first sentence normally is “ufff kahaan phans gaee. Only if I knew all this before…” but I know she does not mean it "

*PS2:
Leave Haniya alone :mad:

PS3:
beside all, this is about Life1, and she is my life

PS4:
PS3 is just so I can have biryani in dinner tonight…

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hahaha
D6C love it ;D

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Acha ji.. bohat achi baat ki aap ne.. award main Haniya aap ki

tell her to come out kitchen too kabhi ..

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Note to begum:
bhaee begum, please contact Spiral else she might go to court treating you as a missing person and then I'll be in trouble.

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If it is said in the heat of the moment, maybe once or twice, you could let it pass. But if it's a constant thing and it becomes a more threatening tone, then it could be a problem. Only you would know what the deal is because it's pretty much impossible for us to tell what the intensity of the fights are like and what over all behavior is when things are going well too.

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I'd like to see that report:

"Jee Police people, there is a random user on a random website who may or may not be abusing his spouse. Can you please look into it."

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I may do that. But as long as DC6 keeps mentioning what she said, what she didn’t say, begum ne aisa kaha, begum suggested this, we know she is alive. Oh and we do know that bohat miyan biwi watch all the saas bahu dramas.. so that could be a good sign :k:

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Spiral you know D6C is joking. Also, I know what you are saying but I find it endearing that he always presents his view and his wife's or how his wife and him would do things. Most of the questions are about husband wife or family dynamics so it only makes sense.

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U never know. Mentioning her in every post might be to cover up the crime

:smokin:

and since Spiral is insisting so much, from now on, I’ll start quoting PAROSAN instead of BEGUM

which one should i Go with? Gori one? or the Brazilian one? or the one from Lebanon?

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Actually begum is perfectly fine.. but if you do have your eye on the other three.. Islam gives you permission to marry them.. 4 allow hain. They could all be begums.. phir more views … Begum 1 ne yeh kaha.. 2 ne woh kaha :wink:

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We never had fight probably because he don't want to get beaten up:D

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abhi bhee kon see hai