The biggest shock desis will have is they dedicated their life and didn’t look after themselves and most probably when the time comes these kids may not be able to return the favor. I don’t fight forces of change, I adjust to it. Same like the goras my kids started working at 14 and 15 and by 18 they should be fully independent, I looked after my health to not require their help. I made my wife my best friend and companion so I don’t need much more for company. Many are living their lives in delusions and I see people in 40s who have a hard time negotiating 6 steps and seem to be stumbling rather than walking.