Re: conservative hubby
He accepted you the way you are , he did not demand you to get tummy tuck , a nose job or some other cosmetic procedure after you two got married. Since from your own admission you have ED so I am sure you must have some appearance issues because of ED. Does he care what you look like because of ED? No! Then it is a screaming proof that he has accepted you for who you are.
What other acceptance you want. Tattoo, tank tops, eating jhatka are all very trivial thing to weight against love of a sincere person.