every1 is blaming distance on his behaviour, wht a load of BS!!!! There is no excuse 4 him being the way he is, especially this whole divorce thing, its nt a joke that he feels he can easily threaten divorce. He will make her life hell when they live together!!!! 4gt him mentioning divorce tell ure friend 2 get a divorce, i really wouldn;t put up this rubbish. Compromise between couples, and understanding is 1 thing, but his behaviour is childish and controlling, not the best bases to begin a relationship that is meant 2 last a life time!!!