Scratch:
I don't know how I missed your post. The one thing that makes me look up to Muslims is the value and concern they attach to the meat they eat/don't eat.
Scratch, it is difficult. But is not impossible. There are many many vegetarian Indians here at my univ, who don't eat meat at all.
To many americans, it would seem impossible to live like that and many wouldn't even believe that. But in these 5 years, I have found so many things that we can eat without meat in almost every restaurant and still enjoy my food and life. This may not exactly be what you are looking for, but I am sharing this with you to get some idea of how to live on the food you choose and not the food you get.
People where I studied took 19 graduate credit hours, had research assistantships (some times worked at restaurants) and still managed to eat the food they chose and not what they had to.
Now, if you eat sea food, then the options increase a lot more.
McDonalds: (Last choice. Mcdonalds sucks in these terms) You can eat almost any burger without meat. Just ask them without meat.
Taco bell: Ask for any item, just tell them to replace the meat with beans. It is as good.
Skyline, gold line or any restaurant that offers Chili: Ask for beans instead of chili.
Subway/Jersy mike/ or any sub joint: They have sea food items, veggie subs, veggie max sub, black bean sub, soups etc..
Penn station - the same above, just tell them to clean the grill to cook the food, and they will do it in front of you.
Pizza joints: All pizza restaurants have atleast one veggie option.
Burgerking: They have sea food items and they also have veggie whopper. It is not listed on the menu, nor an option for him to choose on his machine. But if you tell the counter clerk, he will be able to make it.
TGI fridays, Rincon,Margarita, Don pablos: all these have veggie quesdillas(spelling) and other pasta items that are without meat. They have a lot of sea food items too.
Wendys: They have two pitas without meat.
In addition to this, there are a whole bunch of food items that is available at grocery stores that you can microwave at the library snack joint and eat.
Chipotle: has veggie options
There are som many chinese, thai restaurants, that provide meatfree items or sea food items. Just remember to tell them (twice) to the cook using plain water, instead of chicken broth.
Ponderosas: have a huge buffet, where you cannot eat all the vegetarian items in one sitting.
Waffle house: Hashbrowns, waffles drinks..
One word of caution: Whenever you switch one item for meat, just remember to check the food, if the cook had remembered the instruction.
Scratch, I empathise with you, but I encourage you to stick to your values, come what may.
[This message has been edited by kumarakn (edited February 17, 2001).]