Confusion about married life

Lifestyle Relationships
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Well if this forum is not only for women then mein kuch poochney ki jusarat ker sukta hoon.

I have two girls in my life (wesay tu kai hein leken i am in two).

Both have spent much time, but two have half of qualites.

let clear the thing.
I got an ideal girl in my life, she was perfect in every thing, i have my own choice about ever thing ,specially physical relation,and bed room life.( mein ilfaz ko iss se zaida ehtiat ke saath istmaal nahi ker sukta).
so she was perfect but unfortn i do not have her now.She was beauty ,she was innocent ,she response exactly in a same way (specially in physical relation)what i want.

Now whats problem i have a deep impact of her, but she is no more ,Now the problem is next partener, if i decide to open sexual life that can be possibilty but its against my nature to have a sexual relation in this manner,if i go for marriage according to my family and then i do not know what will happen be cause if i did not like her then it will be more painfull for two of us and if i select one thats more difficult to find someone and then present the story again in front of ppl.??

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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you really living in pak??

[This message has been edited by SADI (edited March 29, 2002).]

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Yeah and even in peshawar

http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/smile.gif

kioon kuch galat khaha

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Sadi dear thats creative situation peshawar mein aisa soochein bhi tu baat baad mein kertey hein aur goli maar detey hein .

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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wesay i am amazed of ur mentality

what u think pakistani's are mentally retarted or they do not have sexual capabilities.??????

You people can easly talk every thing, aisi aisi batein larkian kerti hein,ke muje lrka ho ka shurm ati hay.

wesay hum pakistanion ko ajj bhi itni si baat kertey hoo 10 dafa sochna parta hay ke kahin koi lady hurt na hoo

at least.

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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[quote]
Originally posted by sailor:
**wesay i am amazed of ur mentality

what u think pakistani's are mentally retarted or they do not have sexual capabilities.??????**
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duh....

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

duh....duh....

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Wesay mein kahin para nahi ke allah ne sex se muna kia hoo.

may be "naqus ilm"

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

[This message has been edited by sailor (edited March 29, 2002).]

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You are suprised why? here are you talking about sexual relationship with girls in Pakistan. For me it's new. Now answer me one thing, is this a normal thing over there?

If yeah!! then where is all the religious and moral aspects that everyone living there preach about??

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Well Sadi you have ask a pain full question

and i know many will hurt but its too much truth.

I knoe 100 of hands will and say there is nothing but this like to selfsatisfaction.

Believe me if i meet 100 girls then in them 90 were some level involve in sexual activites at any lever,

Some to date
some to more then date but be in limits and
some believe there will no limits before marriage,

this ration equal or cross to even 100 % specially in age of 17,18 and below 20 .

And if i talk about boys including me then ,better to close the thread.

However there is no dark every where, some r well strongand firm people (boys girls) who live in them see every thing and try to stop them bu praying nad by saying and what ever they can mostly they r profesionals (what i saw) like doctors engineers and etc as for as teenage is concerned if i feel that by telling the things here matter will sove then i def say her every thing, but i know it will not happen coz here ppl come just to see, that which girl is discusing the male body parts and who boy is describing the stimulation he got by females.

In pakistan why it happens coz ppl r materilistic and they do not allow to marry their kids in early ages.

Aub paksitan mein aisi hallat nahi ke humm 20 ya 24 saal tuk wait karein.

Every one should marry to maximux 18 .App ko kuch nazar nahi aie gaa leken mein ne zaida zindgi ghar se bahi guzari hay hostles mein flates mein jo ke fav places taser ki jatein hein,

and say from lahore this is not happen ther,
koi sharef larki raat ke 8 baje ke baad neher ke kinare sufar nahi kerti kioon ke wahan pe 100 se zaida tu body sellers hoti hein and u believe ke how much strong network gays have,

University ke pull pe app raat ko chaley jaien , i have seen every thing when i work for crime news.

Apne gharoon mein even apno girbanoo mein dekhein ke kitney coosines yeh ker rahey hein.

Every day crime reportes reports 100 of these every day phir bhi humare maan baap ko shurm nahi ati aur woo apni zidoon mein arey bethei hein yara.

Mere apne ghar mein meri cousine ki shadi nhi ker rahey kioon ke hur aik apney bussiness set kerne mein luga hay koi norway uk america ya ire land aub sub akhtey hoon tu su ki shadi karein and will u belive ke 5 saal se apni stufies khutm ker ke farugh hey.
5 saal us ne kis tarah guzarey hein yeh tu koi us bechare se poochey.

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kher iss ke pehley ke mod saan is thread ko post karein aur muje woo kahan phir se bunanai parey plz answer my question yara.

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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[quote]
Originally posted by SADI:
**You are suprised why? here are you talking about sexual relationship with girls in Pakistan. For me it's new. Now answer me one thing, is this a normal thing over there?

If yeah!! then where is all the religious and moral aspects that everyone living there preach about??

[This message has been edited by SADI (edited March 29, 2002).]**
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Leken kia khatoon-e-awal app yeh batana pusand karein gi ke jo kuch yahan pe hota ahy this was supposed to do,

Condom Penis vigina and sex kama sutra positions.

I neevr know ke pak.org pe muslmaan larkey larkian yeh bhi kertey hein

so i have to way
1:enjoy baby this is life
2: I can not see that

Mere kehney se yeh sub nahi ruke gaa, kia koi pakistani sooch sukta hay ke us ki sister ya beti iss forum mein aa kae male female body parts ki discusion kerti hoon gi yeh aik dosrey ko web site forward kerti hoon gi ke sex kerne ki postions kia hein,

ji boliey.

Admin plz aik min i am talking to sadi.
Ji atey hi churian chlaney waley khabi jwab sumj aa jai tu pm ker dien muje bhi..

Ya tu wohi kerien jo sub ker rahey hein yani muje batein ke mein kis larki se shadi keroo aur agur us ne sex theekh na kia tu kia keroon

ya phir hum doono wapis img gallery mein chultey hein apni dunia achi hay.

leken if u rthinking ke yeh sub sahi hay aur pakistan mein galat ho rahah hay tu phir mein bhi yaheen hoon)bane na hoa tu) aur app bhi baat chulti rahe gii "INSHALLAH"

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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[quote]
Originally posted by sailor:
**Believe me if i meet 100 girls then in them 90 were some level involve in sexual activites at any lever,

Some to date
some to more then date but be in limits and
some believe there will no limits before marriage,
**
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Things are bad but not that bad. I would be last person to close my eyes on reality but what you are saying is gross exaggeration.

I am sure you only sail your ship in the neher that you have mentioned, and probably thats why the 100 girls you meet are those who live their nights by the neher.

[This message has been edited by Scratch (edited March 29, 2002).]

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^-- Bravo!

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Kambakht Ishq!

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i am not being offencive to anybody...
but since people see world with their eyes and percieve it with their perception thats why to them everybody looks like "them"

now sailor, again no offence but the kinda life and culture you are talking about might be your life style and culture of people around you (since people are freidns with those who share charcteristics with them) but thast not how it is there.

you have exaggreated too much... you think we don't know pak and don't belong there??? and believe whatver somebody tell us...

you are offending and dehumanizig us by saying that 90% and 100% girls have no limits and morals.....

[This message has been edited by secret_obsession (edited April 19, 2002).]

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Now I am interested in finding out where you are getting your numbers from? It looks like a gross exaggeration to me.

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[quote]
Originally posted by Scratch:
** Things are bad but not that bad. I would be last person to close my eyes on reality but what you are saying is gross exaggeration.

I am sure you only sail your ship in the neher that you have mentioned, and probably thats why the 100 girls you meet are those who live their nights by the neher.

[This message has been edited by Scratch (edited March 29, 2002).]**
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hahaha

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Mr Sailor, u make me laugh.
Hope u can screw some English Grammar teacher next time, atleast that way you can improve your English . DUH!.
Get a life. No one wants to know how many women u screw and what happens if u did this or did that in bed.Sex is just a way of life and not life itself. Cmon.

Love All

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Scratch

Mein ne kub kaha hay ke mein Allah mian hoon ur sub sahi kehta hoon leken what i said thats reality and thats what ,what is hapening.Wesay bhi mein iss mein intrested Iss leai nahi raha ke Agur yahan ke sub loog isi man bhi lein tub bhi un mein se aik bhi yeh kerna nhi choorey gaa,

If u got the way to know ppl'z inside thats how much people mastubate then you will enforce my so called ideology ,

secret
Well this is so much painfull ke mein ne iss cheez ko teh pe ja ke aur some kuch find out ker ke swai pain ke kuch nahi lia ,haan sirf itna pata chala

"whats happening in my society and in my country"
agur app offensive oh ke iss cheez ko wrong prove ker dein tu is se bari kushi kia ho sukti hey. leken us ke leai pehle 10 saal awam mein rahein ,ke jub app ki betian pehli dafa school mein party ka ke ke jati hein tu kahan jati hein, unhoon jugoon pe na jahan mein rahah hoon , woo bho app hi ki tarah shareef loog hein, shaam ko jub ghar wapis poonchtey hein tu use tarah purdey mein hoti hein.Iss leai koon keh sukta hay ke yeh lurki School mein durs-e- quran se wapis nahi ai,

mein bhi nahi agur muje yeh pata na hota ke woo kahan se aien hein.
(when i was in onenet i was supposed to support for internet caffes who were client of our company, aur jub mein wahan jata tha tu mein nein cafe ke cabin mein sex hota dekha hay and for ur kind infornmation yeh situation mere saath humesha huftey mein do dafa se zaida hoti thee.)
Haan lahore ke jo loog intrested hoon woo pm ke ke muj se wahan ke addres le lein.

** LaDy iNtElleCT **
Pm me i will provide you the addreses in lahore ,u can live there yeh bhi mein arrange ker doon ga app waha aik hufta rahen aur loogoon ko observe karei ke wahan kia hota hay

us ke baad yahein se doobara baat start ker lein gee

NadiaNotty

haan yeh bilkul sahi hay aur agur khabi mein ne mehsoos kia ke enslish ke beeger zindgi nahi guzar rahi tu app ko teaching ki takleef de loon ga

wesay yeh aik emotional musla hay kioon ke wo nahi rahi jisay meri english dursat kerna acha lugta tha iss leai muje bhi nahi lugta.

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi

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Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur.

Apney signature pey amal karo.

Love All

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[quote]
Originally posted by sailor:

Admin plz aik min i am talking to sadi.
Ji atey hi churian chlaney waley khabi jwab sumj aa jai tu pm ker dien muje bhi..

Ya tu wohi kerien jo sub ker rahey hein yani muje batein ke mein kis larki se shadi keroo aur agur us ne sex theekh na kia tu kia keroon

kher iss ke pehley ke mod saan is thread ko post karein aur muje woo kahan phir se bunanai parey plz answer my question yara.

**
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I really did not understand all of your posts bhai but all I can say here is that there is no 100% grantiee in marriage or relationship. You will never fully know the person you will marry until you marry and start living with that person.

You have to see how you and this girl interact on the intellect level! Do you both have understanding for eachother and how do you get along together? Sex is not everything
in a marriage. If you need more advise I think that some other married men can help you on this matter as they will speak from their personal experience.

Still I can not believe the numbers that you posted..it really seems like an exaggeration. Some may be true, coz I have heard may things going in some places. I know its hard to believe em.

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Sadi You really thinking i am serious ,guria that was a stupid post i never post and inshallah will never post again.

leken muje bus aise hi gusa chara tha thats why mein ne yeh post "kar mari"

ta ke loogoon ko kuc user tu hoo.
Aur kimat waley din mein "summun bukmoon " (sorry for spell) yani goongey behrey looogoon mein shamul na hoon.
I thoght an aspect and i creat a situtaion to ask for question.

Meri zindgi Allah ke fazal se Computer ke saath achi guzer rahi hay aur mein zara eastern style ka hoon personlly problems ko handel ker leta hoon..

Iss leai at least meri shadi emin ya understanding mein koi problem nahi swai aik ke,

bajioon ka kheyal hey ke mein aklota hoon iss leai meri shadi zara zaida shoor shrabey se hone chahey (mein isi shoor shraba kkehta hoon woo dhoom dhaam kehti hein)

leken mein chahta hoon ke bus musjad mein nikhan hoo jaey aur meri biwi aur ghar wali khana buna ke kuch loogoon ki invite ker lein yeh walima ho jae.

Iss cheez ka koi hul hay, tu baji ko mail ker dein kioon ke mein tu mano ga nahi.

Aur jahan tuk facts ki baat hay tu u can feel it like a war.

Jesay humein pata nahi hota ke cricket ke akhri over tuk koon jetey gaa isi tarah is chupi cheez ka pata nahi kia hay ,

leken problem pata kia hay jis tarah cricket match ke hartey hi pata chulta hay ke hum match haar gaie hein,leken us waqat kuch nahi ho sukta.isi tarak agur 5 saal baad app loogoon ne maan lia ke mein sahi keh rahah that tu app yeh bhi kahin ge ke leken aub kia ho sukta hay.

Iss leai mera iss cheez ko bian kerne ka mutlab yahi tha ke kuj keroo yara

mein tu apna kafi waqat burbad ker chuka hoon yeh lumbi lumbi kahnia likh khe aur wesay bhi is dumb loogoon ka bhula ker ke muje kio Linux ki degree mil jay gii.

**
NADIA WAQAY NOTTY **

Yara amul hi tu ker rahah hoon thabi tu iss uljhan wali juga pe aa ke sur khapa raha hoon

werna zingi tu img gallery mein tasweerien dekhtey bhi guzar rahi thi

Farqa zara dekhin aub ne kaha tha ke english seekhney ke lei kisi teacher ke sathh ----- ji whohi

leken mein ne jub app ko reply kai tu us mein wazia likha ke app se kahoon ga ke teaching ke zumadari utha lein.

Aub aik larki muje kisi teacher se sex kerne pe uxsa rahi hay aur mein jawab mein us ko taleem ki taraf la rah hoon.

iss se zaida naiki kia ho gi.

Dunia mein rehna hay tu Allah se dur

Aur gup cafe mein rehna hay tu Ahmed ji se bhi