When a girl says
“I swear to GOD i love you more than anyone else in my life”
“I swear to my mom and dad life I love you”
What does that mean?
I don’t have any feelings for her and I want to leave her but she is not letting me go.
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If you dont believe her then nobody here on gupshup can make you believe it. I don't know why you wasted your time in posting something you don't believe. I dont think any sane person on gupshup would have nice words to say to you. Please Leave her it would be her gain and your loss. I am sure she'd be better off in her life......
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Huh? If you don't have feelings for her n if you dnt think u can be with her w/o having any such feelings for her then just get out of her life. It cant be that hard, i mean she sure doesnt have u locked up in a cell :P
Why do u wanna figure out what she means by all that? Will that have an impact on your decision? If not, then just dont waste yr time on it.
But frm what i can make out of it, she is being forced to prove her luv to u cuz maybe thats what u question her always?. But i believe love shud be felt n nt necessairly declared 24/7. I mean each to their own but yah saying it again n again, swearing on it wouldnt make it stronger.
I m not that bad. Believe me.
We went out and had an amazing time. I like her but we know we can't marry because of my family problems. We are in a relationship for almost 2 years. So I wanted to finish it fast. I am trying for last 1 year.
I ignored her many times and said many things but she never said anything. I called her cheap and many things just to hate me. I don't want to ruin her life. I want to see her happy. But she is always like I smile with u only. You are the only person in my life who can make me happy.
Whenever I wanted to finish she is like I need you. Actually I m worried she will ruin her life like this. I don't want to give her false hopes.
How someone can be sooo nice? :S
Huh? If you don't have feelings for her n if you dnt think u can be with her w/o having any such feelings for her then just get out of her life. It cant be that hard, i mean she sure doesnt have u locked up in a cell :P
Why do u wanna figure out what she means by all that? Will that have an impact on your decision? If not, then just dont waste yr time on it.
But frm what i can make out of it, she is being forced to prove her luv to u cuz maybe thats what u question her always?. But i believe love shud be felt n nt necessairly declared 24/7. I mean each to their own but yah saying it again n again, swearing on it wouldnt make it stronger.
I have little playing mind...thats y maybe I am thinking she is playing. But she is very sweet and nice and whenever i need she will come even if she is tired or busy. She failed exams because of me.
I never had bad experience in a relationship but I don't believe in love.
^ You've been giving her false hopes for the past 2 years!
She started. I just treated her like a princess and gave her respect. I didn't do anything wrong in the beginning.
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You can not understand why she is so nice because you yourself lack the good qualities she has. "Jo khud jaisa hota hai doosron ko bhi waisa hi samjhta hai" that is why you are CONFUSED.
Tell her politely that things cannot work out instead of playing games like ignoring her.
You can not understand why she is so nice because you yourself lack the good qualities she has. "Jo khud jaisa hota hai doosron ko bhi waisa hi samjhta hai" that is why you are CONFUSED.
Tell her politely that things cannot work out instead of playing games like ignoring her.
I told her. She starts crying.
I m not that bad. Believe me.
We went out and had an amazing time. I like her but we know we can't marry because of my family problems. We are in a relationship for almost 2 years. So I wanted to finish it fast. I am trying for last 1 year.
I ignored her many times and said many things but she never said anything. I called her cheap and many things just to hate me. I don't want to ruin her life. I want to see her happy. But she is always like I smile with u only. You are the only person in my life who can make me happy.
Whenever I wanted to finish she is like I need you. Actually I m worried she will ruin her life like this. I don't want to give her false hopes.
How someone can be sooo nice? :S
I wanna say so much but i dont know whether to believe you are just fooling around or are too naive for any kind of relationship. Seriously, how abt growing up first b4 having such relationship? I say, its a wise idea.
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Better she cries now then later her crying all her life.
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Trollaholics anonymous :k:
Better she cries now then later her crying all her life.
True!!!!
I wanna say so much but i dont know whether to believe you are just fooling around or are too naive for any kind of relationship. Seriously, how abt growing up first b4 having such relationship? I say, its a wise idea.
say please...i need opinion
i dnt know wat to do :(
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You need to sever all types of communications with her, and tell her you are doing so. Do not give in. She'll hopefully get over you soon.
You need to sever all types of communications with her, and tell her you are doing so. Do not give in. She'll hopefully get over you soon.
I tried everything.
Actually her friends helped her and found her a new guy. He loves her alot. Always taking care and everything. She told him everything abt me and he accepted her. I was happy for her :) :) But after sometime i was online and she started talking with me and said she is not happy with him. She made me emotional again and i told her i love you and it started again :( :( . She hurt him and left him for me :( . But after few days i realized again this is not good and started to ignore her. I dnt wana hurt her anymore.
You can not understand why she is so nice because you yourself lack the good qualities she has. "Jo khud jaisa hota hai doosron ko bhi waisa hi samjhta hai" that is why you are CONFUSED.
Tell her politely that things cannot work out instead of playing games like ignoring her.
I told her. I am little bad i know but i dnt want to hurt any1 feelings thats y i told her otherwise i can keep her also. I tell her that i m not good for you and u deserve some1 good. but she never listens :(
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dont play with her feelings.
have a talk with her tell her honestly that you both cannot have a future together. tell her that you don't want to hurt her anymore and it's better to end the relationship as this relationship can bear no fruits. you both then should cut off all ties/contacts with each other no phone calls , no msn no nothing. don't even try to find out about each other thru other people/common friends. this relationship will not take you and her anywhere and the more you both will drag it more painful it will become for her. she seems young and emotional. time is the biggest healer take a step once and for all but before you end everything tell the true reason of ending the relationship don't say things like "i am no good 4 u" be honest with her , don't leave her full of questions. closure is very important. and yes also ask for forgiveness from Allah and don't repeat the word "i love you" with her.
dont play with her feelings.
have a talk with her tell her honestly that you both cannot have a future together. tell her that you don't want to hurt her anymore and it's better to end the relationship as this relationship can bear no fruits. you both then should cut off all ties/contacts with each other no phone calls , no msn no nothing. don't even try to find out about each other thru other people/common friends. this relationship will not take you and her anywhere and the more you both will drag it more painful it will become for her. she seems young and emotional. time is the biggest healer take a step once and for all but before you end everything tell the true reason of ending the relationship don't say things like "i am no good 4 u" be honest with her , don't leave her full of questions. closure is very important. and yes also ask for forgiveness from Allah and don't repeat the word "i love you" with her.
Believe me I don't want to play with anyone feelings. I feel bad about myself doing it.
When she says "I can never hate u" , "I can't stop loving you" , "I can never live happy with someone else". What should i do then? I can't leave her alone like this.
Believe me I don't want to play with anyone feelings. I feel bad about myself doing it.
When she says "I can never hate u" , "I can't stop loving you" , "I can never live happy with someone else". What should i do then? I can't leave her alone like this.
UFFO! How old are you?
Do you see a possibility that you can fall for her love? If not, then don't even try and be sweet with her. PLease for God's sake LEAVE HER ALONE. OR give me her email id or whatever n i will explain to her why she needs to get away from you for real n for good.