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Bhai merey, I like KKF`s idea the best if you are at that stage, however if you are not sure and would like to ask her out then do it, whats the worst that can happen she will say NO and you dont bring this topic up ever again, khwama khaa log itnee tension letey hain, I have a bad record of acceptences but I never quit trying, apney zamanay mein shayad he koi thee jis ko meiney poocha nahi tha :D, bahar haal woh guzray din kitney yaad aatay hain :sighz:
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young as in immature
The woman you're so inkling to put down as immature is somebody you've never known, or interacted with.
Thanks for your contribution to future life1 threads!
Sarcasm?
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How should I ask her, xtron?
Women like that..try to play smart. And especially if they find out you like em...they try to play with you. So you gota watch out for yourself. Since i don't the girl..personally..so i would just tell you that straight up ask her. "hey listen..i like you..i think you're great person..i was thinking of us giving chance and get to know more about each other...with no obligation..that is ok. But i would love to go out with you.". Dont say things like..if you're ok with us sort of idea. Always close the deal with positive!. In a way..dont give her a choice. Good luck buddy..
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Bhai merey, I like KKF`s idea the best if you are at that stage
I second that.
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Very interesting viewpoints. I want to clarify the following:
I am a bit younger.
Im still in school with very good job outlook in the next 2 yrs.
She already has a job.
I'm not looking for a casual relationship.
One of you guys stated that maybe I should go the traditional route instead of just asking her out. I might do this but for right now im gonna ask her next time I see her.
More feedback is welcome.
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**One of you guys stated that maybe I should go the traditional route instead **of just asking her out. I might do this but for right now im gonna ask her next time I see her.
I have a question. Does this girl know you're a bit younger and still studying? If so, that may be the reason she is comparing and not taking you as seriously as you'd like (that's the impression I get, I may be wrong) since loads of girls have the idea that the guy should be older and already established in his profession.
Personally, from what you've stated, I don't think you should go the traditional route. She doesn't seem very keen about you and if you go the traditional route and suggest marriage, it may alarm her and put her off further. I think you should begin by asking her out and go from there.
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We have known each other for 3+yrs. She told me I was younger. She has been wanting updates on my schooling and stuff. Dont qoute this please..
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^By younger, are we talking a couple of years or quite a few years (if I may ask)?
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~4
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^Four years is not a large age difference, but when you're in your twenties, it sometimes seems that way, especially in terms of education and job prospects, so it's possible that is the reason she is a bit hesitant. (I'm in my early twenties and sometimes even a couple of years seems like quite a difference in terms of education and the like even though it really isn't). Anyway, I think you should ask her out and based on the reply you get, proceed accordingly :)
be prepared for the worst.
Hope for the best.
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it’s the internet. he asked for an opinion and he got one. :halo:
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Ask her out, make us proud. At least you won't have have to guess anymore.
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Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Be mature about it and let her know to give it an honest thought and if her answer is no, it's ok, you and she will continue to be friends no hard feelings. Never get awkward, people's feelings change all the time, so if answer is no today maybe in a year or so she will change her mind.
Good luck!!!
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^
what does she require 'a year or so' for, try her luck with tall guys?
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Yup u should approach her without any hesitation and with full confidence.
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Just ask and don't regret. You see you won't ever understand some actions of women. They are just like that. Het comparing you could mean nothing but it could also mean something else.
If you go after the Shouldas and the Wouldas etc you will never know. So just be a guy and just say it!! Good luck!
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Asked for an opinion about his concern, nowhere did he ask you to pass an opinion about the person he shares his concern with. :halo:
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I guess you didn’t read my original reply. I said:
And, then I changed the word young to immature.
If she’s talking about other men in front of you, she’s too immature for you bro.
That ^ was my opinion on his concern and then you escalated whatever issue you felt was there.
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I guess you didn't read my original reply. I said:
And, then I changed the word young to immature.
If she's talking about other men in front of you, she's too immature for you bro. That ^ was my opinion on his concern and then you escalated whatever issue you felt was there.
Her mental age was never asked to be questioned. Can't believe it's becoming so tediously difficult to grab a grasp on to it.
Anyway, for the sake of no more polluting the internet with arguments that are downright pointless. An old saying that goes:
Nancy Astor (to Winston Churchill): If I were your wife I would put poison in your coffee!
Churchill: And if I were your husband I would drink it!!