Re: Confused
No one can answer these questions aside from you.
If you feel you are ready to have a child and properly nurture him/her....do it.
Life is differnet for everyone. If you see other people with children and you dont have one, does that mean you SHOULD have one? No. If I see ten people bungee jumping, does that mean I should do it too? No.
You dont make decisions in life because other people are doing it too...you make them based on your life, goals, significant other, etc.