I don't get this spoon situation. They just ignore you and look at you as if you are crazy? Btw when you say they how many of them are there? Are they all brothers?
I really don't get it either ..... we were in a family gathering with around thirty people crammed into one house, its my house so i was helping guests get settled in, one aunt asked me for a spoon, all of the guys were pouring food so i couldn't reach over the guys for the spoon, so i asked the cousin for a spoon, he just stood there stared at me like i was crazy and turned around and completely ignored me! wtf was that? i just stood there stunned, what am i suppose to do in these situations
they=brothers, sadly there are two of them