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Re: confused
^he's your ex for a reason. try to remember why you broke up in the first place!
Re: confused
Dont spoil the life of your best friend if you still love your ex. Try to figure out if its really true, sometimes it happens that we are into a relationship and in love (unaware of). All the true come after we break up.
Re: confused
move on
Re: confused
this calls for a movie
^he's your ex for a reason. try to remember why you broke up in the first place!
i agree wid fasaadiii
Re: confused
LiquidSnake, can you elaborate more on your predicament? Did you part on good terms? How long since you split? Does your best friend, the guy you are about to marry know about your history with the ex?.. What makes you think you still love your ex? Are you sure it's not just that you are missing him?..
Details love, we need details..
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Re: confused
I don't think u should be marrying someone when ur still in love with another person, it could cause some major problems later on.. What happens if ur going thru a rough patch with ur wife and she reappears and says she wants u back?? Can u guarantee u won't be tempted? Also, not nice the thought of being in bed with ur wife whilst u still have feelings for someone else..
Reason for moving on is the because I know for sure I wont get back together with my ex. That part of my life is the past and I have moved on. But what to do with the feelings??? I care for the girl to much whom I am about to marry and wanted to discuss this with her. should I???
Re: confused
is your ex more attractive than your wife-to-be? that may explain it. other than that, i suggest, you don't ruin the life of the girl ur about to marry... and go marry ur ex.
Re: confused
No big deal if you have some feelings left for ex, its very natural.
How ever scary part is you don't have feelings for your would be.
You don't marry some one out of pitty, are you anil kapoor from
"virasat"?
this ENTIRE world would be single in that case… including this Masti gal!
Liquid: One can never forget their first love. Never. However, you know you have moved on and there is no chance of “reuniting” - no matter how much you still love her.. you should “keep the treasured memories” but still move on into the future.
Re: confused
app k damaagh k keeray ko zaroorat hai ik chittar ki ...jo app k tmaam masaail ko jald hal kerai
If he was just missing her it wouldn't be such a big deal but still loving her is different imo. I've seen relationships where all hell breaks loose where a boy still loves the ex and then the ex turns up half way thru wanting to try again..
Re: confused
Why are you marrying your best friend? Do you love her in anyway? What does she mean to you? Are you attracted to your fiance physically? Do you spend time together?
As for your ex...feelings and memories will always be there. You will never be rid of them and you shouldnt be. However, if you're constantly thinking about her and cannot focus on your fiance, then we have a problem.
Let's say - hypothetically - fate brings you and your ex together again somehow. She is in front of you, ready to be with you and you can be with her too. SHe isnt married and your fiance is gone. Would you take her back? Would you be with her again? Dont feel the need to answer me here...answer yourself and if its a YES...then dont get married right now.
Remember one thing: Your fiance is depending on you. If you feel you are unable to give her a happily married life, then do not marry her. She might cry a little right now but it will be peanuts compared to what she will go through if you marry her and hurt her later on.
PS yaar! do not to advise to take her back - without smacking her in the head! for WASTING ALL of those years and time! Even if it is hypothetical! 
Re: confused
Mastiiiii!!! Im not telling him to take her back at all...I want to know if he WOULD or WOULDNT depending upon the circumstances.
If he would take her back...he shouldnt be getting married.
If he wouldnt...he is ready to move on but needs to focus on his fiance more.
Re: confused
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