had a friend from grade 7 to 12 and as we had a good friendship for so many years she just changed completely and i had got new friends too so we didn’t keep in touch much and then there were times when we called but had nothing to say to one another and i felt as if she just talked to me cause i did so i backed out fully and now i have no in touch with her at all i also left my other friends that knew her and me both cause if i had to back out and forget her then i had to forget everyone that knew us
i met a girl in college and I’m not friends with her but before i could be i just found out that she knows my friend the one i had backed out from and i was just surprised how i came to where i was i mean i backed out but here she is .. the new friend doesn’t know i know that girl but i plan on not talking to her either
am i paranoid? do i have problems?
also talking to my cousin makes me feel as if shes chatting with me .. why is that? why cant i get over her?
another thing i dnt have the trust and courage in me to make new friends
budd all i would suggest is chill and live life, the more you think about it the more you are going to run into it, i would suggest just relax and roll with the flow and see where it takes you. I see that you have feelings and she does not, just relax and be friends with this other girl in college and leave the rest to fate.
well McPendo same goes to men, how faithful are they, not very at all.
Jawad 2000, honestly dont stress about it, this new girl u'v met i think u should be friends with her, u have no reason to run away from every1 that know's ur x-friend. hold ur head up high and if you do bump into this x-friend of ur's wen out with ur friend there's no harm in saying hello and leaving it at that.
Life is too short to be worrying about ex-friends and who they may or may not know/socilaize with..
Chill Yaar…
Also, if your male (Muslim) and she’s (obviiously) female, is it wise to start a “Friendship”?.. We know where these “Friendships” lead too.. Be careful..!