if you are confused and you cannot make up your mind.you have to decide between two things and both the things/path seems good.but you have to choose one…uuuffff normally what you all do when you have to decide something ,yahan koi decision lainai mai muskil aa rahi hoo:hmmm:
so how do u make your decisions???
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Do istakhara! 
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tell me how can i do it.i have always believed only pious people can do it..like molvi saab in masjid:D
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Try to do a little cost-benefit analysis of the two options. If still confused, try to get some elder's advice - someone you have faith in (mother or father maybe?) and see if the advice can add something to the cost-benefit situation. Try making a calculated choice.
tell me how can i do it.i have always believed only pious people can do it..like molvi saab in masjid:D
No, even people like me can do it as well... :D
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thanx sadaf and janwaar,you guys simply rock:hugz:
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Something that always helped me when trying to make a tough decision is to make a list. For each choice, make a list one one side of the page of everything you like about that choice. On the other side of the page, list everything negative about that choice.
This helps to sort things out a bit more clearly.
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1)List the Pros & Cons of both options
2)Look at the long term consequences of both
3)Do Isthikhara
**4)Follow your gut instinct **
Well thats what i'd do.........:)
P.S ....Oh...and it always helps to get another point of view....sometimes in our confusion we miss the most obvious !
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What is Isthikhara? 
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Shaz its a dua that you read to ask Allah to guide you to what's good for you......
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ine meni mina mo:@:
tumhai Meera Jee se fursath milay tho na 
tell me how can i do it.i have always believed only pious people can do it..like molvi saab in masjid:D
I have done it many time, I say isha prayer. and then ask allah for help.
Tell him how you I feel(like as he already don;t know lolzz). And pray for guidance.
Go to sleep.
I think what we do is make our mind preceptive for allah's guidance or may be just for time being we clears whats not important. But what ever it is.
and till next morning
1-either you see some thing
2-when you wake you will be so much single minded. Toward one thing.
I always ask “SeeN”.
**Moderator Philosophy & Spirituality Forum **
ok that explains:cb:
Ap ko yaqeen nahee…Main hee wo hoon jo P & S ka mod bhee hey…
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Something that always helped me when trying to make a tough decision is to make a list. For each choice, make a list one one side of the page of everything you like about that choice. On the other side of the page, list everything negative about that choice.
This helps to sort things out a bit more clearly.
I do that too I write things on paper and then do istakhara also
I do that too I write things on paper and then do istakhara also
so did god ever asked you "why work twice?" or "my time is important too, u know"
Ap ko yaqeen nahee......Main hee wo hoon jo P & S ka mod bhee hey.....
I am one post short of my 1000, it better be good.....
kia cheeze...app ki post ya app ka forum :D?
