@times u like things which aren’t good for u…wht should u do…should u let it go…???
@ times u like something(major stuff in life) …but u r confused whether they r good for u or not…how do u find if its good for u or not…
can anyone answer…plz..
Re: confused
sara_87,
confusion is alright until it is only confusion caused by unclear info to use to make a decision. but when it is made a fixed alibi, then is when it becomes a cause of failure.
we ought to know what is good for us and approach it with care and steadfastness.
its only after that, that everything is locked from us, by Almighty since then only Almighty knows what is right or not right for anyone.
but effort must be made, if the heart and the mind says to follow something or someone, with focused dedication, even if it requires undoing something what one did to run away from something or someone.
each person knows to some verifiable extent that what he/she can do or not do.
so the whole hearted effort must be there to get what one would like to try to obtain lawfully.
whatever it is that you are confused about, make sure you don’t keep anyone in dark nor you deceive your own self into thinking that self pity is a good thing. make your decision after giving things a rational thought and be considerate about whomever the decision is going to affect. esp., if that person or thing you have gotten support from in your trying times.
you don’t want to appear ever, as a selfish or a coward.
letting go is, on the surface applicable, when death takes life and even then some links an bonds will never break.
effort should be made to make that kind of a bond.
admit your responsibility and confidently make your decision/s and then be comfortably ready to take on their outcome/s.
yes, normal non living things are different, because they are mechanical and not deal with heart and mind.
still, their care should be taken as one makes use of them.
best,
Dushwari
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Re: confused
Confusion is all about lack of information. Get complete info about both point of views, + & - ... and base u'r decision on that. Only u'r common sense and time can tell if your decision was right or wrong.
But never stay confused. Must take a decision. Earlier the better.
Good luck.
Re: confused
its not all about confusions, lack of decision etc always... sometimes only TIME answers and reveals the things out to you..You never know!