Re: Confused
quote=Noorah;4897985]Im at a loss and don’t know what to do:( , I discovered that in my “potential husband to be family” my intended future brother in law in got married. No prob with that he got married to a gori no prob with that as well as I come from a family that have many different cultures in it.
The problem is and It keeps playing on my mind is that my fiancé never mentioned 2 me even wats going on even though I have known him for around 7 years so as u can imagine 2 me it was a total shock 2 me.
Then I hear that they met on the internet and she flies of to pak to marry him, apparently she revereted many years ago. But when I had a conversation with her she did not seem 2 know nothing about islam for someone who had reverted a few years back. Inshallah I hope 2 guide her as best as I can.
But my fiancé keeps on comparing me to her 
and for what bloody reason I have no idea, to me she seems like is the token gori, especially in pak these ppl behave like they have never seen one. They are obsessed by her.
They are a family of pathans and what I thort were strict but they don’t bat an eyelid wen they let her wear clothes clothes which don’t cover her self up properly.
Should I say something and let them her know that she should not be parading round in clothes like this especially in pak. Or should I stay silent as its her husband duty to say something?
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I didnt get your first paragraph, could u clarify what u mean by u and your fiance r or aren’t relatives.?
ANyway…for the second part…keep your nose out of their business..becuz it maintains your respect.You can have an opinion, but you cannot judge others as Allah is the Ultimate Judge.You dont know what is in there hearts, so it is best for you to maintain your self respect and say nothing.:)You have been smart enough to be doing this for a while, dont let emotions get the best out of you.