Confused between two proposals

[Paheli00]

Re: Confused between two proposals

@gudiaali

she only had a little interaction with both the guys in at her place when they came in and that interaction merely was a general one like what do you do in your spare time, what current projects you are working at your work etc so she cant really judge more about their personalities from one little general interaction.

I agree with the others that personality and common future goals are VERY important. Just b/c that guy is 40…that doesn’t mean that they won’t “click” and just b/c the other one is 35 means that they’ll “click”.

Given the importance of this decicion…why can’t she share her concerns with her parents (ie. she’s not sure which guy to pick) and request that she have a chance to talk to them once more time. If a face-to-face meeting is not possible for whatever reason…at least talk to them on the phone and find out the what each guy expects from his wife.