Re: confrontation of lies
I have no patience for such people.
I had one of my aunt saying crap to my mother in my house and made my mum cry, I told this aunt that while she is an elder and that I respect my elders, and her deal with my mum is between them.. but she can nto sit in my house, and ridicule my mother and not expect me to take it sitting down.
I told her that mym mum and dad are shareef ppl who never spoke up for themselves even when the khandan took advantage of them and people stuck to them like leeches for their own purposes, and my parents never said anything.. but that I have learnt from that, and I will not put up with someone messing with my parents..they mess with my family… I mess with them, and that they knew me and my approach, and if they wanted to have any izzat left that they should back off and get off my parents case.
My mum and dad tried to stop me and I told them, even you dont have a say in it. I am grown up now.. and these ppl mess with you, you get hurt and upset and we are hurt and upset to see you that way. So if you dont want me to do this for you..and u forgive these people, thats your business. I am going in this for myself.
lets just say..the word spread and in general the people have backed the F* up 
btw when this happened, I was 31 and the lady i was talking to was 60 something 