Conflicted: desire to please vs living your own life

[hareem01]

Re: Conflicted: desire to please vs living your own life

@Decent_6Chora

To be honest, we never actually plan a segregated get-together on purpose but whenever we are meeting some family friends (lets say 3-4 families) at home or restaurants, after slaam dua and haal-ehwal, groups segregates automatically (in different rooms at home or at different table corners at restaurant etc) as topics b/w women and guys and kids normally do not overlap greatly. Its just natural.

Yeah but there’s a difference when there is a strict rule imposed in the household…

Also, desi friends would understand but what about the non-desi friends? They would be completely weirded out by the inlaws’ strict segregation law.