Re: conflict with sibs over special things/people
life is not an indian soap opera where one is planning to sabotage and other dont even have a clue about it. parents know exactly who is doing what. they want you to ask your brother/sister to make them do things. they are not saying it you directly but you can feel it in their eyes. but on the other hand your sibs dont even give a damn about it.
there are several matter where no matter what i say my folks wont listen to me, but if my older brothers say something they blindly listen to them, even if it is the exact same thing.