Complicated situation

[lordoffriends]

Re: Complicated situation

@fitoor

What was her body language like the next day when you asked her out for coffee. Did it look like she wanted to make a quick get away, she was annoyed? If she’s extremely shy, which a lot of us desi women are around the opposite gender, she might be sending mixed signals. She really likes you but can’t get up the courage to say something. I don’t think her sister would say B does not have a problem with it, if B does not really like you. We really don’t know what B’s thinking so wait until after Ramadan is over.

She might be very conservative. You represent a non-mahram to her. Being alone with her in the pantry was by itself a bit haraam-ish.

Now that I think about it, take the route of talking with her father and brother first, if you are serious about her.

She was nodding to what I was saying like I opened the conversation with statement that she eats quite late to which she just nodded.Then I said that we had a meeting in cafeteria few hours ago.She just stared blankly at my face. She was not very interactive like giving her input etc which just increased my doubt about her interest.
I notice very subtle things like the way she was sitting facing me like she wanted me to interact with her which is unusual.She always sits facing television in the cafeteria but this time she changed her sitting position and was facing me.I don’t know.