Yeh, I have had this, so called family don’t want me to know that they are pregnant/their wife etc ispregnant because in their tiny little mind they think that losing your child is a disease that they will catch!
One particular family member always takes her 6 months old sister away from me whenever I happen to pick her up - she makes any excuse under the sun and it happens every time…and this girl is only 19!!! Shows that it rubbed off how her mum behaved when she was pregnant!!!
(By the way, this particular person fell pregnant after a 16 year gap because it was in fashion and prided herself in saying to me - we thought about it and hey presto I was pregnant!)
People are cruel sometimes and never think what if it happens to them. These are superstitions coming from hindu cultuer which we muslims are not ready to leave. Wbemum u are not that old because i know ur reproduction is slow but usually amerrican ladies end up haiving children at age 40 so u are just young.