How soon is too soon to start having complaints after the wedding?
Be they about the wedding itself or how the spouse acted or how the in laws/family members are?
Is it even normal to have complaints soon after the nuptuals?
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I don't think it is ever too soon :-p
I have heard complaints before weddings, lol. And yes, usually due to how things are being organised regarding the wedding etc. I always thought weddings were meant to be fun, but can bring really bring out the worst in people!
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Hah. Alot of complaints start even after the engagement when the couple gets talking n meeting.
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I don't think it is ever too soon :-p
I have heard complaints before weddings, lol. And yes, usually due to how things are being organised regarding the wedding etc. I always thought weddings were meant to be fun, but can bring really bring out the worst in people!
Im talking about the relationship itself....though i guess wedding complaints is another thread altogether...
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Yes, from what I have seen, the way it is all handled and how the in-laws behave at/before the occasion can make cracks appear.
It is sad though, if there are problems with each other before the wedding!
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There is nothing wrong with complaining to your close people. But if you're going to be a drama queen thats a problem.
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i don't think there should be a time limit to when you can start complaining as long as you're complaints are legit and you're not just nit picking things
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Women are naggers by default .
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Men are jerks by default.
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:k: right
i think it depends on husband. . . how beautiful he manage his wife. . . Female is new in family n they have to make environment comfortable for her n hubby role is MOST Important in it. . .
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I think the whole 'magic' wears off in about a month? Two at the most? And then its the same old daily nagging routine that has been going on for ages. Can't live with em, can't live without em.
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Depends on how legit your complaints are. Complaints can be voiced as soon as they appear rather than sitting on them for ages. Nipping the evil in the bud is always way better than letting it turn into a grudge or grievance.
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That said, there is always a better way to voice a complaint. The goal needs to be making it a better marriage, not making things worse.
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Way to bump an old thread^
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:P
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title of this thread suggested me the complaints of wedding arrangement.
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^ 
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So confused
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let me share my experience my mum in law didnt allowed my mehndi photosession n i was annoyed so much(i mentioned this many times in wedding forum) so i started complaining the very 1st night 2 huby tht y ur mum did thid n ofcourse there was no valima happening so i just got more emotional so v had complaints the very 1st night :)
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a lot of times, people make mental notes of whatever little problems they see during the wedding. usually its a few weeks after when your opening up your photo album or whatever that you start to complain...