Feelings before marriage is momentarily illusion of mind.Life is blissful if husband and wife are good friends and understand each other,life is painful if they cannot.It takes a lifetime to fall in love and love to flourish,love doesnt happen in one day or years.Life is very different after marriage than what it appears.It requires lot of patience for uneven circumstances compromises,patience.The most difficult phase is when u got to adjust with person with difference of opinion and life style.