Here is the thing. Better yourself. Don't give a rats ass about other people. All desis fall into this trap unless they work themselves out of it. They do it, so what. Be content with what you have. Also have some self confidence and don't worry about people comparing you to others. The reason they for the comparison is to mess with you. Why let them?
If you want to be a real *******, turn the tables on them. So and so has a car what happened to yours etc. Either way stop whining and be happy.
you tell em sister!