Re: Comparing children
my cousins granddad who has now passed away , went mad always comparing us to our cousins ( phuppos kids ) he would make us have competitions and if they won he would rub it in our faces . he would tell us to spell words and if we did it wrong he would laugh and make us feel very bad . my phuppo is also always comparing and bigging her kids up .
its not nice to be compared as my cousin and me were same age same school so at times i felt so down.
but all is well , it doesnt get to me anymore as they now dont have anything to compare us to .
my phuppo and dadi have made our lives hell troughout years with this constant comparison but now they wnt their daughters to be where we are
my phuppo is disliked by the whole khandaan for the very reason that she is always always complimentin her kids and saying they are better , now no one likes them and their rishta's broke for that reason too.
anyways kids should not be compared all , each child is individual and special