Any advice would be appreciated where two persons have taken first few steps towards a relationship which they do not know would eventually be…but as they are progressing (in time…) theer seems to be certain communication gaps…or somethings which doesnt click or go well with other.
It all depends on persons, as to how accomodating each one of them is, but I wanted to ask has anyone of you ever been in a relationship where it started of with all positives, and then with the passage of time felt some awkwardness due to communication…how did you solve that issue (provided you resolved it)…or you keep it under the carpet thinking those few moments are not worth fretting …any good advice would be deeply appreciated!
More specifics needed here.....I mean, I'm a gori raised by a strict 1950's republican navy-man and my mom who was like June Cleaver. And I married a desi man. We are SO different in some ways and SO very alike in others. When we get to an impasse, HE would just avoid me but I do not ever let that go...I tell him OK we got a problem here and we hafta talk it out. And we DO. Thats it, thats the end of the story, we have littles and its so very important for both of us to be there for them that ANY difference, no matter how big or small - if it bothers one or both, it MUST be discussed and ironed out. As long as that is a hard and fast rule then things are just peachy with a couple of lumps, yeah?