communication with in laws

[Niksik]

Re: communication with in laws

@honey_buney

hi guys.i have a problem.a serious problem,thats been going on for a very long time.in fact,its been 8 yrs,almost.the thing is i have zero interest in my in laws.they are good people,we never had any fights or anything.i just dont know what to say to them.my mil is illiterate and although there is nothing wrong with it,her world is just very small.how many times can i listen to her,talking about her village,her daughter’s problems with her in laws,mehngai in pakistan etc etc.

and the thing is,she has no idea/interest in my life.she wont ask for anything other than how am i and the kids.i sometimes i have to tell myself,forcefully,about my life just to fill up the gaps in conversation.

my fil is an old fashioned guy who doesnt like to talk to much with women,in general.the main problem is my husband(isnt there always,)he is always asking me to spend more time with them on the phone/skype etc etc.

i have 4 sis in laws and i get along very fine with all of them.they are all pretty easy going and simple.so with them,i talk quite easily.but the problem is MIL.

seriously people,tell me.does anybody else have this issue?are you struggling with communication with in laws?

sorry for not writing properly.i am rather confused at the moment.

Make an effort. There doesn’t have to be an commonalities, just a desire.