Communication issues

[eastern11]

Re: Communication issues

This is not normal. Being lovey dovey is another thing ( also important in my book but another topic). But spouses do check on each other. I have seen husbands text/ call their wives frequently after 15-20 years of marriage. How is he with you when you guys are home?

@zaramalik1

Seriously… I mean there have been times when hubby has told me about plans the night before that he has has after work the next day and Im like cool. The next day I dont hear anything all day until 11pm when he is on his way home. I was like you dont even know if I made it home ok from work or technically if I went missing in the last 12 hours (you would only realise if u come home at 11pm and I wasnt there) and he thought I am over reacting. I am not asking for lovey dovey texts - I think its basic courtesy to find out how the person is doing just once over that period of time. Bearing in mind he is Mr Sociable and a total party animal - he is not the reserved type.