okey another attempt. I am not giving up.
so you and your spouse come from a totally different backgrounds, families, financial status infact you both are raised in a different cultures where both of you saw how to handle husband/wife relationships differently.
You try to have a nice discussion about it but it only works for a moment and when that moment is gone so is the understanding. You try hard to put your best in it but you want your other half to help you bridging this communication gap.
So i am gona make it simple of all of you: **How can one bridge a communication gap with thier spouse. Keep in mind whatever you say means totally different thing in other patner's language.* *
talking....if that isn't working...then writing [emails / letters / books]..if even thats not working then praying [to God to make ur hubby more smart]...if everything fails then sadly to say you'll have a really bumpy ride in the future.
also don't forget that if someone simply doesn't want to understand something then no matter how hard you try...he/she/it won't understand even if its something as simple as 'i love you' or 'chal chaliye duniya de os'se nukray jithay banda na banday di zaat hovey'...