^ Just curious to know how old are you? and did you what did you experience to come to that conclusion?
If talking isn't working for you - then maybe writing (emails) would be a better way of communication? You can word your sentences more carefully to potray what you are trying to say?
Not much detail to say more
Think about it, most conflicts are caused by misunderstandings and misunderstandings because of communication gaps. I think its very difficult for people to express what they really feel due to a lot of different things.