Communication doesn't work anymore

[TeriDulhan]

Re: Communication doesn’t work anymore

@PyariCgudia

Did you know him prior to marriage as a friend? Or was this more arranged?

It was arranged but we did get to talk to each other and stuff. We’ve been married for 3 years now.

@PyariCgudia

You have a couple of options here. You can talk to him openly, and be very clear rather than round-about in your complaints. Talk to him and outline X, Y and Z as your problems with him. Give him concrete examples and give him concrete suggestions. Sounds like he wants to make things work, and both of you are talking to each other, but not really. He just probably processes relationship dynamics differently than you do. In other words, when you’re upset and you make a face, he may not be reading it as “she’s upset”, and maybe he thinks a bug got into your nose.

That’s the thing. Sometimes, all I have to do is sigh very loudly or make a face…and he knows exactly what I am thinking and why I’m upset. and othertimes he can just be so mean. Mostly it’s over very minor stuff that seems kind of petty to get angry over…but it’s those little little incidents that add up and I’m starting to resent him.

@stayyabali

communication is key in most matter of life including married life.

I’m sorry but what was the point of your post? just to copy what I already said? If you have nothing to add hten just stay away please.